Preschool daycare: using the flashcard set (once a week)

The group uses one large flashcard to talk about a thank-you situation before anyone writes. This once a week plan is for preschool children in a daycare group.

  • about 4 and 5
  • 5 to 7 minutes missions
  • once a week
Preschool daycare: using the flashcard set (once a week) — children learning gratitude with books and activities

Using the flashcard set for preschool in a daycare group

The group uses one large flashcard to talk about a thank-you situation before anyone writes. In this daycare room, preschool children (about 4 and 5) practice with “The stop at the crosswalk.” Mr. Diaz, the crossing guard, he held the sign and waited until every child was on the curb. The once a week calendar is the one that fits: This is the once-per-week format from the second half of the manual, written for groups and clubs that do not meet daily. One meeting carries the mission. A single home task goes in the activity book. Do not try to compress five school days into one hour.

The daycare lead leads. Mixed ages share the room. The youngest children answer out loud. Older children write. Nobody waits while the other group finishes a long craft. Children answer in one picture and one question, answered out loud in a small circle. The spoken line is “Thank you for helping us cross..” The note line is “Thank you for waiting until we were all across..” Alison Gilham’s program supplies the manual, the activity book, and the flashcards; this page is the plan for this group and this kindness.

Who is in the daycare room

Daycare days are full. The program is built for that: short missions, a manual with a once-per-week option, and materials that work for mixed ages 4 to 9. There is no cost to the provider when a sponsor funds the package. Register on Find a Sponsor and Alison matches the room with a business or an individual.

Plan 5 to 7 minutes for preschool. Most preschoolers dictate. The adult writes the name and the short line. A child who wants to mark the page can draw the helper and trace the words Thank you. The daycare lead holds the manual. Children hold the line about Mr. Diaz once they can say what happened to the stop sign.

Words to say about Mr. Diaz

This is a script the daycare lead can say with preschool children during using the flashcard set. It uses “The stop at the crosswalk,” a practice situation for this plan. It is not a list of the 30 printed flashcards. Those cards stay in the set and match the activity book. Use this script when you need the words in the room.

daycare lead: “We are going to thank Mr. Diaz. Mr. Diaz is the crossing guard. Here is the kindness: he held the sign and waited until every child was on the curb. It happened at the crosswalk. Look at the stop sign.”

One once a week meeting in the daycare room

This is the once-per-week format from the second half of the manual, written for groups and clubs that do not meet daily. One meeting carries the mission. A single home task goes in the activity book. Do not try to compress five school days into one hour. In the daycare room, the daycare lead has one sitting with preschool children, about 4 and 5. Do not replay a school week. Mixed ages share the room. The youngest children answer out loud. Older children write. Nobody waits while the other group finishes a long craft.

Age tips for preschool (about 4 and 5)

Preschool children can learn why thank you matters before they write much. They need a picture, a person, and one clear kindness. A long talk loses them. The leader shows the moment, the children say a short line, and the group stops while the words still feel friendly. For this daycare plan, keep the mission inside 5 to 7 minutes. one picture and one question, answered out loud in a small circle.

The note for Mr. Diaz

The note can be a dictated sentence. The child supplies the person’s name and the kindness. The adult prints it on the activity-book template so the child can see that spoken thanks and written thanks are the same idea. For this kindness the sentence is “Thank you for waiting until we were all across.” It has to mention the crosswalk or the stop sign, not a general compliment to the crossing guard.

Copy-ready lines for “The stop at the crosswalk”

Spoken line to practice: “Thank you for helping us cross.” Reply children may hear: “You are welcome. Stay on the curb until I say so.” Note line to write: “Thank you for waiting until we were all across.” Spanish line for the same kindness: “Gracias por ayudarnos a cruzar.”

Classroom and group notes for the daycare room

Daycare days are full. The program is built for that: short missions, a manual with a once-per-week option, and materials that work for mixed ages 4 to 9. There is no cost to the provider when a sponsor funds the package. Register on Find a Sponsor and Alison matches the room with a business or an individual. Mixed ages share the room. The youngest children answer out loud. Older children write. Nobody waits while the other group finishes a long craft.

If preschool children stall on Mr. Diaz

Draw a curb line on the floor. Nobody says the line until both feet are on the safe side. A child who keeps thanking the daycare lead is avoiding Mr. Diaz. Send them back to the crossing guard and the moment at the crosswalk. Whispering “Thank you for helping us cross.” counts.

What Mr. Diaz's lesson needs

The flashcard set has 30 cards, 8.5 by 11 inches, colorful, with rounded corners. The cards mirror the activity book so the group can look at one situation before writing. Each child needs Why and How To Say “Thank You,” the classroom edition: a saddle-stitched activity book with situations for saying thank you, the How To Write A Thank You Note template, and extra pages to practice. The Operation Thank You Manual is 98 pages. The first half is the Monday–Friday classroom sequence. The second half is the once-per-week sequence for clubs. The manual, the activity book, and the flashcards are available in Spanish. The MISSION Reminders Supplement can be added when some children speak Spanish. Extra activity books are sold in packs of 10. For “The stop at the crosswalk,” also set out the stop sign. Hold one card. Ask what the person did. Match the card to the page in the activity book only after the children have said the kindness in their own words.

Spanish materials in this group

If any child in the daycare room speaks Spanish at home, order the Spanish activity book for that child and keep the same situation. The Spanish line for this plan is “Gracias por ayudarnos a cruzar.” The English line remains “Thank you for helping us cross.”

Home work after The stop at the crosswalk

Thank the adult who walks you across a street or a parking lot, and name the place. Write that in the activity book so the family sees Mr. Diaz's kindness, not a blank “say thank you.” The note can be a dictated sentence. The child supplies the person’s name and the kindness. The adult prints it on the activity-book template so the child can see that spoken thanks and written thanks are the same idea.

Books for this daycare preschool group

Spoken practice about Mr. Diaz can start in the daycare room today. The activity-book template matters when preschool children are ready to write “Thank you for waiting until we were all across..” If a sponsor is funding this daycare group, parents get a sample letter, and shipping is included on full and partial packages. The leader can ask at no cost.

Questions leaders ask

Plan on 5 to 7 minutes. This is the once-per-week format from the second half of the manual, written for groups and clubs that do not meet daily. One meeting carries the mission. A single home task goes in the activity book. Do not try to compress five school days into one hour. Mixed ages share the room. The youngest children answer out loud. Older children write. Nobody waits while the other group finishes a long craft.

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