Alison Gilham, The Thank You Lady, turned a 2018 idea into a classroom program that teaches 4- to 9-year-olds why and how to say thank you. This page is her story, mission, and vision for the Culture of Thank You movement.

How many times have you had a Great Idea just fall from the heavens? What did you do?
The idea for a book to teach children to say "Thank You" came from No-Where and lit up my brain like a lightning bolt in March 2018. I know I've missed opportunities in my life because I didn't follow up on those Special Moments. THIS one I did NOT let go.
I look back now and marvel at the Culture of Thank You Movement as it is today. It is nothing short of miraculous!
You will find the longer story in the first entry on the "WELCOME New Sponsors" page and you will read that nothing worthwhile comes easily nor happens overnight.


Reaching children with significant life skills in their formative years impacts the rest of their days. Gratitude is a foundational element of a rich and fulfilling life. The simplicity of "Thank You" opens doors and presents opportunities to those who take that moment to acknowledge the kindness of others.
I was fortunate to be raised in a home where Mom introduced the importance of Thank You Notes to me at an early age. Dad never failed to thank Mom for preparing dinner for us all on a nightly basis. Those simple, intentional acts imprinted me for life. I can't help but think that I was being prepared for the Culture of Thank You Movement and my role as The Thank You Lady!
The mission of The Culture of Thank You is to help children understand the meaning and power of gratitude: why it matters, how to express it, and how a sincere “thank you” strengthens the connections between people.
By giving children opportunities to notice, appreciate, and acknowledge the good that others bring into their lives, we help make gratitude a habit they can carry with them for a lifetime.
I envision a world in which gratitude is learned early, practiced naturally, and carried throughout life. A world where children grow up noticing the good around them, appreciating the people who make a difference in their lives, and understanding the importance of acknowledging that goodness.
As those children grow, they carry gratitude into their families, friendships, schools, workplaces, and communities, creating a culture in which people are seen, valued, and appreciated.
Whether you're a parent, teacher, organization, business, or individual looking to make a difference, there's a place for you in the Culture of Thank You.
Let's help the next generation learn to recognize kindness, appreciate others,
and say “Thank You” with meaning.