Preschool after-school: sponsoring this group (once a week)

The leader knows how a sponsor funds the manual, the activity books, and the flashcards, and how to ask. This once a week plan is for preschool children in a after-school group.

  • about 4 and 5
  • 5 to 7 minutes missions
  • once a week
Preschool after-school: sponsoring this group (once a week) — children learning gratitude with books and activities

Sponsoring this group for preschool in a after-school group

The leader knows how a sponsor funds the manual, the activity books, and the flashcards, and how to ask. In this after-school room, preschool children (about 4 and 5) practice with “The book held open.” Ms. Brooks, the librarian, she held a book open and waited while a child found the page. The once a week calendar is the one that fits: This is the once-per-week format from the second half of the manual, written for groups and clubs that do not meet daily. One meeting carries the mission. A single home task goes in the activity book. Do not try to compress five school days into one hour.

The after-school leader leads. Children have already been in school. Skip silent copying drills. Say the line, act the kindness, and write only the note the program is building toward. Children answer in one picture and one question, answered out loud in a small circle. The spoken line is “Thank you for helping me find the page..” The note line is “Thank you for waiting while I found the page..” Alison Gilham’s program supplies the manual, the activity book, and the flashcards; this page is the plan for this group and this kindness.

Who is in the after-school room

After-school groups are tired. The mission has to be shorter than the day’s homework help and more concrete than a talk about character. Flashcards give the group something to look at. The weekly format fits programs that do not meet every weekday.

Words to say about Ms. Brooks

This is a script the after-school leader can say with preschool children during sponsoring this group. It uses “The book held open,” a practice situation for this plan. It is not a list of the 30 printed flashcards. Those cards stay in the set and match the activity book. Use this script when you need the words in the room.

One once a week meeting in the after-school room

This is the once-per-week format from the second half of the manual, written for groups and clubs that do not meet daily. One meeting carries the mission. A single home task goes in the activity book. Do not try to compress five school days into one hour. In the after-school room, the after-school leader has one sitting with preschool children, about 4 and 5. Do not replay a school week. Children have already been in school. Skip silent copying drills. Say the line, act the kindness, and write only the note the program is building toward.

Age tips for preschool (about 4 and 5)

Preschool children can learn why thank you matters before they write much. They need a picture, a person, and one clear kindness. A long talk loses them. The leader shows the moment, the children say a short line, and the group stops while the words still feel friendly. For this after-school plan, keep the mission inside 5 to 7 minutes. one picture and one question, answered out loud in a small circle.

The note for Ms. Brooks

The note can be a dictated sentence. The child supplies the person’s name and the kindness. The adult prints it on the activity-book template so the child can see that spoken thanks and written thanks are the same idea. For this kindness the sentence is “Thank you for waiting while I found the page.” It has to mention the library corner or a picture book open to the right page, not a general compliment to the librarian.

Copy-ready lines for “The book held open”

Spoken line to practice: “Thank you for helping me find the page.” Reply children may hear: “I am glad you asked. Take your time.” Note line to write: “Thank you for waiting while I found the page.” Spanish line for the same kindness: “Gracias por esperar mientras encontraba la página.”

Classroom and group notes for the after-school room

After-school groups are tired. The mission has to be shorter than the day’s homework help and more concrete than a talk about character. Flashcards give the group something to look at. The weekly format fits programs that do not meet every weekday. Children have already been in school. Skip silent copying drills. Say the line, act the kindness, and write only the note the program is building toward.

If preschool children stall on Ms. Brooks

Hold a book open yourself and freeze. Ask what kindness the freeze is showing. A child who keeps thanking the after-school leader is avoiding Ms. Brooks. Send them back to the librarian and the moment at the library corner. Whispering “Thank you for helping me find the page.” counts.

What Ms. Brooks's lesson needs

The Operation Thank You Manual is 98 pages. The first half is the Monday–Friday classroom sequence. The second half is the once-per-week sequence for clubs. Each child needs Why and How To Say “Thank You,” the classroom edition: a saddle-stitched activity book with situations for saying thank you, the How To Write A Thank You Note template, and extra pages to practice. The flashcard set has 30 cards, 8.5 by 11 inches, colorful, with rounded corners. The cards mirror the activity book so the group can look at one situation before writing. The manual, the activity book, and the flashcards are available in Spanish. The MISSION Reminders Supplement can be added when some children speak Spanish. Extra activity books are sold in packs of 10. For “The book held open,” also set out a picture book open to the right page. If the books are not in the room yet, practice the spoken mission anyway, and tell families how a sponsor or an order supplies the printed set.

Spanish materials in this group

If any child in the after-school room speaks Spanish at home, order the Spanish activity book for that child and keep the same situation. The Spanish line for this plan is “Gracias por esperar mientras encontraba la página.” The English line remains “Thank you for helping me find the page.”

Home work after The book held open

Thank a family member who reads one page with you and waits when you lose the line. Write that in the activity book so the family sees Ms. Brooks's kindness, not a blank “say thank you.” The note can be a dictated sentence. The child supplies the person’s name and the kindness. The adult prints it on the activity-book template so the child can see that spoken thanks and written thanks are the same idea.

Books for this after-school preschool group

This page is about getting the set into the after-school room: the manual, one activity book per child, and the 30-card flashcards, so “Thank you for waiting while I found the page.” can be written about Ms. Brooks. The leader asks on Find a Sponsor at no cost. Alison Gilham matches a sponsor or takes a chosen group in any U.S. state, then calls the leader before shipping. Payment is due when the package is ready. Groups over 30 add books in tens. Spanish copies use “Gracias por esperar mientras encontraba la página.” beside “Thank you for helping me find the page..” Email info@cultureofthankyou.com or call 971-265-8262.

Questions leaders ask

Plan on 5 to 7 minutes. This is the once-per-week format from the second half of the manual, written for groups and clubs that do not meet daily. One meeting carries the mission. A single home task goes in the activity book. Do not try to compress five school days into one hour. Children have already been in school. Skip silent copying drills. Say the line, act the kindness, and write only the note the program is building toward.

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