Kindergarten youth club: using the flashcard set (Monday–Friday)
The group uses one large flashcard to talk about a thank-you situation before anyone writes. This Monday–Friday plan is for kindergarten children in a youth club group.
about 5 and 6- 5 to 10 minutes missions
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Using the flashcard set for kindergarten in a youth club group
The group uses one large flashcard to talk about a thank-you situation before anyone writes. In this club meeting, kindergarten children (about 5 and 6) practice with “The greeting at the church door.” Mrs. Hale, the greeter, she learned a child’s name and held the program out where small hands could take it. The Monday–Friday calendar is the one that fits: This is the Monday–Friday format from the first half of the Operation Thank You Manual. You see the same children on five school days. Each day is one mission of 5 to 10 minutes. The note is the work of the later days, not of Monday.
The youth club leader leads. Attendance may change week to week. Begin with a one-sentence reminder of last week’s kindness so a new child is not lost, then do today’s mission. Children answer in a morning-meeting turn, with children repeating one line together before anyone writes. The spoken line is “Thank you for saying my name..” The note line is “Thank you for greeting me at the door..” Alison Gilham’s program supplies the manual, the activity book, and the flashcards; this page is the plan for this group and this kindness.
Who is in the club meeting
Clubs and community youth programs can run the program without a full school week. The package is the same three parts: the Operation Thank You Manual, activity books, and the 30-card flashcard set. Alison coordinates shipping to the leader.
Plan 5 to 10 minutes for kindergarten. Kindergarten children can copy a short sentence and draw the person they are thanking. Many still need an adult to spell a name. The classroom activity book gives extra space so the first note is not squeezed onto one line. The youth club leader holds the manual. Children hold the line about Mrs. Hale once they can say what happened to a printed program.
Words to say about Mrs. Hale
This is a script the youth club leader can say with kindergarten children during using the flashcard set. It uses “The greeting at the church door,” a practice situation for this plan. It is not a list of the 30 printed flashcards. Those cards stay in the set and match the activity book. Use this script when you need the words in the room.
Five kindergarten missions in the club meeting
Keep Monday inside 5 to 10 minutes in this youth club group. Look only. Put a printed program where kindergarten children can see it. Name Mrs. Hale, the greeter, and say the kindness: she learned a child’s name and held the program out where small hands could take it. It happened at the door of the hall. Ask “What is kinder, a paper or someone using your name?” Stop at 5 to 10 minutes. No note yet. Attendance may change week to week. Begin with a one-sentence reminder of last week’s kindness so a new child is not lost, then do today’s mission. If they freeze, Practice with eyes on the person. If that is too hard, the child may look at the program and still say the name.
Age tips for kindergarten (about 5 and 6)
Kindergarten is the right moment to make thank you a habit, because morning meeting already asks children to look at one another. The language stays simple enough for early readers. Missions stay short so they fit circle time without replacing the rest of the day. For this youth club plan, keep the mission inside 5 to 10 minutes. a morning-meeting turn, with children repeating one line together before anyone writes.
The note for Mrs. Hale
The adult writes the helper’s name if needed. The child copies “Thank you for” and then adds a few of their own words or a drawing of the kindness. For this kindness the sentence is “Thank you for greeting me at the door.” It has to mention the door of the hall or a printed program, not a general compliment to the greeter.
Copy-ready lines for “The greeting at the church door”
Spoken line to practice: “Thank you for saying my name.” Reply children may hear: “I am glad you are here.” Note line to write: “Thank you for greeting me at the door.” Spanish line for the same kindness: “Gracias por decir mi nombre.”
Classroom and group notes for the club meeting
Clubs and community youth programs can run the program without a full school week. The package is the same three parts: the Operation Thank You Manual, activity books, and the 30-card flashcard set. Alison coordinates shipping to the leader. Attendance may change week to week. Begin with a one-sentence reminder of last week’s kindness so a new child is not lost, then do today’s mission.
If kindergarten children stall on Mrs. Hale
Practice with eyes on the person. If that is too hard, the child may look at the program and still say the name. A child who keeps thanking the youth club leader is avoiding Mrs. Hale. Send them back to the greeter and the moment at the door of the hall. Whispering “Thank you for saying my name.” counts.
What Mrs. Hale's lesson needs
The flashcard set has 30 cards, 8.5 by 11 inches, colorful, with rounded corners. The cards mirror the activity book so the group can look at one situation before writing. Each child needs Why and How To Say “Thank You,” the classroom edition: a saddle-stitched activity book with situations for saying thank you, the How To Write A Thank You Note template, and extra pages to practice. The Operation Thank You Manual is 98 pages. The first half is the Monday–Friday classroom sequence. The second half is the once-per-week sequence for clubs. The manual, the activity book, and the flashcards are available in Spanish. The MISSION Reminders Supplement can be added when some children speak Spanish. Extra activity books are sold in packs of 10. For “The greeting at the church door,” also set out a printed program. Hold one card. Ask what the person did. Match the card to the page in the activity book only after the children have said the kindness in their own words.
Spanish materials in this group
If any child in the club meeting speaks Spanish at home, order the Spanish activity book for that child and keep the same situation. The Spanish line for this plan is “Gracias por decir mi nombre.” The English line remains “Thank you for saying my name.”
Home work after The greeting at the church door
Thank a family member who greets you when you come home, and say what they do at the door. Write that in the activity book so the family sees Mrs. Hale's kindness, not a blank “say thank you.” The adult writes the helper’s name if needed. The child copies “Thank you for” and then adds a few of their own words or a drawing of the kindness.
Books for this youth club kindergarten group
Spoken practice about Mrs. Hale can start in the club meeting today. The activity-book template matters when kindergarten children are ready to write “Thank you for greeting me at the door..” If a sponsor is funding this youth club group, parents get a sample letter, and shipping is included on full and partial packages. The leader can ask at no cost.
Questions leaders ask
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