Kindergarten Sunday school: using the flashcard set (once a week)

The group uses one large flashcard to talk about a thank-you situation before anyone writes. This once a week plan is for kindergarten children in a Sunday school group.

  • about 5 and 6
  • 5 to 10 minutes missions
  • once a week
Kindergarten Sunday school: using the flashcard set (once a week) — children learning gratitude with books and activities

Using the flashcard set for kindergarten in a Sunday school group

The group uses one large flashcard to talk about a thank-you situation before anyone writes. In this Sunday school room, kindergarten children (about 5 and 6) practice with “The wiped lunch table.” Mr. Alvarez, the lunch helper, he wiped the table so the children had a clean place to eat. The once a week calendar is the one that fits: This is the once-per-week format from the second half of the manual, written for groups and clubs that do not meet daily. One meeting carries the mission. A single home task goes in the activity book. Do not try to compress five school days into one hour.

The Sunday school teacher leads. Opening and music already take time. The mission is one short block, then the note template only when the group has practiced the kindness out loud. Children answer in a morning-meeting turn, with children repeating one line together before anyone writes. The spoken line is “Thank you for wiping our table..” The note line is “Thank you for wiping the table before we ate..” Alison Gilham’s program supplies the manual, the activity book, and the flashcards; this page is the plan for this group and this kindness.

One once a week meeting in the Sunday school room

This is the once-per-week format from the second half of the manual, written for groups and clubs that do not meet daily. One meeting carries the mission. A single home task goes in the activity book. Do not try to compress five school days into one hour. In the Sunday school room, the Sunday school teacher has one sitting with kindergarten children, about 5 and 6. Do not replay a school week. Opening and music already take time. The mission is one short block, then the note template only when the group has practiced the kindness out loud.

Open on “The wiped lunch table.” Tell the group that Mr. Alvarez, the lunch helper, he wiped the table so the children had a clean place to eat at the lunch table. Put a cloth and a clean spot where crumbs were in sight. Ask all three questions, one at a time: “What did his hands do before you sat down?” “What would the table have felt like if he had walked past it?” “Who else cleans a place so you can use it?” Children answer in a morning-meeting turn, with children repeating one line together before anyone writes. Stop answers that are only “they were nice.”

Words to say about Mr. Alvarez

This is a script the Sunday school teacher can say with kindergarten children during using the flashcard set. It uses “The wiped lunch table,” a practice situation for this plan. It is not a list of the 30 printed flashcards. Those cards stay in the set and match the activity book. Use this script when you need the words in the room.

The note for Mr. Alvarez

The adult writes the helper’s name if needed. The child copies “Thank you for” and then adds a few of their own words or a drawing of the kindness. For this kindness the sentence is “Thank you for wiping the table before we ate.” It has to mention the lunch table or a cloth and a clean spot where crumbs were, not a general compliment to the lunch helper.

Age tips for kindergarten (about 5 and 6)

Kindergarten is the right moment to make thank you a habit, because morning meeting already asks children to look at one another. The language stays simple enough for early readers. Missions stay short so they fit circle time without replacing the rest of the day. For this Sunday school plan, keep the mission inside 5 to 10 minutes. a morning-meeting turn, with children repeating one line together before anyone writes.

Copy-ready lines for “The wiped lunch table”

Spoken line to practice: “Thank you for wiping our table.” Reply children may hear: “You are welcome. Enjoy your lunch.” Note line to write: “Thank you for wiping the table before we ate.” Spanish line for the same kindness: “Gracias por limpiar la mesa.”

Who is in the Sunday school room

Sunday school time is limited. The once-per-week missions were written for groups that meet weekly, including church classes. Children can thank family, classmates, and people who serve the congregation. The series still ends with a thank-you note.

What Mr. Alvarez's lesson needs

The flashcard set has 30 cards, 8.5 by 11 inches, colorful, with rounded corners. The cards mirror the activity book so the group can look at one situation before writing. Each child needs Why and How To Say “Thank You,” the classroom edition: a saddle-stitched activity book with situations for saying thank you, the How To Write A Thank You Note template, and extra pages to practice. The Operation Thank You Manual is 98 pages. The first half is the Monday–Friday classroom sequence. The second half is the once-per-week sequence for clubs. The manual, the activity book, and the flashcards are available in Spanish. The MISSION Reminders Supplement can be added when some children speak Spanish. Extra activity books are sold in packs of 10. For “The wiped lunch table,” also set out a cloth and a clean spot where crumbs were. Hold one card. Ask what the person did. Match the card to the page in the activity book only after the children have said the kindness in their own words.

Classroom and group notes for the Sunday school room

Sunday school time is limited. The once-per-week missions were written for groups that meet weekly, including church classes. Children can thank family, classmates, and people who serve the congregation. The series still ends with a thank-you note. Opening and music already take time. The mission is one short block, then the note template only when the group has practiced the kindness out loud.

If kindergarten children stall on Mr. Alvarez

Point at the clean spot on the table and ask one child to touch only that spot, then say who made it clean. A child who keeps thanking the Sunday school teacher is avoiding Mr. Alvarez. Send them back to the lunch helper and the moment at the lunch table. Whispering “Thank you for wiping our table.” counts.

Home work after The wiped lunch table

Thank the person who clears the table after a meal at home, and name what they carried. Write that in the activity book so the family sees Mr. Alvarez's kindness, not a blank “say thank you.” The adult writes the helper’s name if needed. The child copies “Thank you for” and then adds a few of their own words or a drawing of the kindness.

Spanish materials in this group

If any child in the Sunday school room speaks Spanish at home, order the Spanish activity book for that child and keep the same situation. The Spanish line for this plan is “Gracias por limpiar la mesa.” The English line remains “Thank you for wiping our table.”

Books for this Sunday school kindergarten group

Spoken practice about Mr. Alvarez can start in the Sunday school room today. The activity-book template matters when kindergarten children are ready to write “Thank you for wiping the table before we ate..” If a sponsor is funding this Sunday school group, parents get a sample letter, and shipping is included on full and partial packages. The leader can ask at no cost.

Questions leaders ask

Plan on 5 to 10 minutes. This is the once-per-week format from the second half of the manual, written for groups and clubs that do not meet daily. One meeting carries the mission. A single home task goes in the activity book. Do not try to compress five school days into one hour. Opening and music already take time. The mission is one short block, then the note template only when the group has practiced the kindness out loud.

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