Kindergarten homeschool co-op: using the flashcard set (Monday–Friday)

The group uses one large flashcard to talk about a thank-you situation before anyone writes. This Monday–Friday plan is for kindergarten children in a homeschool co-op group.

  • about 5 and 6
  • 5 to 10 minutes missions
  • Monday–Friday
Kindergarten homeschool co-op: using the flashcard set (Monday–Friday) — children learning gratitude with books and activities

Using the flashcard set for kindergarten in a homeschool co-op group

The group uses one large flashcard to talk about a thank-you situation before anyone writes. In this co-op class, kindergarten children (about 5 and 6) practice with “The watering can passed over.” Mr. Bennett, the neighbor, he passed a lighter watering can so a child could reach the plants. The Monday–Friday calendar is the one that fits: This is the Monday–Friday format from the first half of the Operation Thank You Manual. You see the same children on five school days. Each day is one mission of 5 to 10 minutes. The note is the work of the later days, not of Monday.

The co-op teacher leads. You will not see these children tomorrow. Everything that matters has to happen in the meeting, with one small home mission written in the book. Children answer in a morning-meeting turn, with children repeating one line together before anyone writes. The spoken line is “Thank you for letting me water the plants..” The note line is “Thank you for sharing the watering can..” Alison Gilham’s program supplies the manual, the activity book, and the flashcards; this page is the plan for this group and this kindness.

Who is in the co-op class

A co-op class may meet once a week with children from several families. That is the once-per-week half of the manual. Each child still needs an activity book. Families can mix English and Spanish copies when the co-op is bilingual.

Plan 5 to 10 minutes for kindergarten. Kindergarten children can copy a short sentence and draw the person they are thanking. Many still need an adult to spell a name. The classroom activity book gives extra space so the first note is not squeezed onto one line. The co-op teacher holds the manual. Children hold the line about Mr. Bennett once they can say what happened to a small watering can.

Words to say about Mr. Bennett

This is a script the co-op teacher can say with kindergarten children during using the flashcard set. It uses “The watering can passed over,” a practice situation for this plan. It is not a list of the 30 printed flashcards. Those cards stay in the set and match the activity book. Use this script when you need the words in the room.

co-op teacher: “We are going to thank Mr. Bennett. Mr. Bennett is the neighbor. Here is the kindness: he passed a lighter watering can so a child could reach the plants. It happened at a garden bed. Look at a small watering can.”

Five kindergarten missions in the co-op class

On Monday, kindergarten children (about 5 and 6) stay with “The watering can passed over.” Look only. Put a small watering can where kindergarten children can see it. Name Mr. Bennett, the neighbor, and say the kindness: he passed a lighter watering can so a child could reach the plants. It happened at a garden bed. Ask “What did he change so you could do the job?” Stop at 5 to 10 minutes. No note yet. You will not see these children tomorrow. Everything that matters has to happen in the meeting, with one small home mission written in the book. If they freeze, Use a cup as the can. The thanks comes after the pour, not before, so children see the job.

Age tips for kindergarten (about 5 and 6)

Kindergarten is the right moment to make thank you a habit, because morning meeting already asks children to look at one another. The language stays simple enough for early readers. Missions stay short so they fit circle time without replacing the rest of the day. For this homeschool co-op plan, keep the mission inside 5 to 10 minutes. a morning-meeting turn, with children repeating one line together before anyone writes.

The note for Mr. Bennett

The adult writes the helper’s name if needed. The child copies “Thank you for” and then adds a few of their own words or a drawing of the kindness. For this kindness the sentence is “Thank you for sharing the watering can.” It has to mention a garden bed or a small watering can, not a general compliment to the neighbor.

Copy-ready lines for “The watering can passed over”

Spoken line to practice: “Thank you for letting me water the plants.” Reply children may hear: “The roots need it. Pour slowly.” Note line to write: “Thank you for sharing the watering can.” Spanish line for the same kindness: “Gracias por dejarme regar las plantas.”

Classroom and group notes for the co-op class

A co-op class may meet once a week with children from several families. That is the once-per-week half of the manual. Each child still needs an activity book. Families can mix English and Spanish copies when the co-op is bilingual. You will not see these children tomorrow. Everything that matters has to happen in the meeting, with one small home mission written in the book.

If kindergarten children stall on Mr. Bennett

Use a cup as the can. The thanks comes after the pour, not before, so children see the job. A child who keeps thanking the co-op teacher is avoiding Mr. Bennett. Send them back to the neighbor and the moment at a garden bed. Whispering “Thank you for letting me water the plants.” counts.

What Mr. Bennett's lesson needs

The flashcard set has 30 cards, 8.5 by 11 inches, colorful, with rounded corners. The cards mirror the activity book so the group can look at one situation before writing. Each child needs Why and How To Say “Thank You,” the classroom edition: a saddle-stitched activity book with situations for saying thank you, the How To Write A Thank You Note template, and extra pages to practice. The Operation Thank You Manual is 98 pages. The first half is the Monday–Friday classroom sequence. The second half is the once-per-week sequence for clubs. The manual, the activity book, and the flashcards are available in Spanish. The MISSION Reminders Supplement can be added when some children speak Spanish. Extra activity books are sold in packs of 10. For “The watering can passed over,” also set out a small watering can. Hold one card. Ask what the person did. Match the card to the page in the activity book only after the children have said the kindness in their own words.

Spanish materials in this group

If any child in the co-op class speaks Spanish at home, order the Spanish activity book for that child and keep the same situation. The Spanish line for this plan is “Gracias por dejarme regar las plantas.” The English line remains “Thank you for letting me water the plants.”

Home work after The watering can passed over

Water one plant with a family member and thank them for teaching you how much water to use. Write that in the activity book so the family sees Mr. Bennett's kindness, not a blank “say thank you.” The adult writes the helper’s name if needed. The child copies “Thank you for” and then adds a few of their own words or a drawing of the kindness.

Books for this homeschool co-op kindergarten group

Spoken practice about Mr. Bennett can start in the co-op class today. The activity-book template matters when kindergarten children are ready to write “Thank you for sharing the watering can..” If a sponsor is funding this homeschool co-op group, parents get a sample letter, and shipping is included on full and partial packages. The leader can ask at no cost.

Questions leaders ask

Plan on 5 to 10 minutes. This is the Monday–Friday format from the first half of the Operation Thank You Manual. You see the same children on five school days. Each day is one mission of 5 to 10 minutes. The note is the work of the later days, not of Monday. You will not see these children tomorrow. Everything that matters has to happen in the meeting, with one small home mission written in the book.

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