3rd grade daycare: sponsoring this group (once a week)

The leader knows how a sponsor funds the manual, the activity books, and the flashcards, and how to ask. This once a week plan is for 3rd grade children in a daycare group.

  • about 8 and 9
  • 5 to 10 minutes missions
  • once a week
3rd grade daycare: sponsoring this group (once a week) — children learning gratitude with books and activities

Sponsoring this group for 3rd grade in a daycare group

The leader knows how a sponsor funds the manual, the activity books, and the flashcards, and how to ask. In this daycare room, 3rd grade children (about 8 and 9) practice with “The stop at the crosswalk.” Mr. Diaz, the crossing guard, he held the sign and waited until every child was on the curb. The once a week calendar is the one that fits: This is the once-per-week format from the second half of the manual, written for groups and clubs that do not meet daily. One meeting carries the mission. A single home task goes in the activity book. Do not try to compress five school days into one hour.

The daycare lead leads. Mixed ages share the room. The youngest children answer out loud. Older children write. Nobody waits while the other group finishes a long craft. Children answer in a brief discussion the children can lead, with the adult keeping it on one kindness. The spoken line is “Thank you for helping us cross..” The note line is “Thank you for waiting until we were all across..” Alison Gilham’s program supplies the manual, the activity book, and the flashcards; this page is the plan for this group and this kindness.

Who is in the daycare room

Daycare days are full. The program is built for that: short missions, a manual with a once-per-week option, and materials that work for mixed ages 4 to 9. There is no cost to the provider when a sponsor funds the package. Register on Find a Sponsor and Alison matches the room with a business or an individual.

Plan 5 to 10 minutes for 3rd grade. Third graders use the template as a checklist, not as a script to copy. The note should sound like the child: a real detail, a real person, a plain closing. The daycare lead holds the manual. Children hold the line about Mr. Diaz once they can say what happened to the stop sign.

Words to say about Mr. Diaz

This is a script the daycare lead can say with 3rd grade children during sponsoring this group. It uses “The stop at the crosswalk,” a practice situation for this plan. It is not a list of the 30 printed flashcards. Those cards stay in the set and match the activity book. Use this script when you need the words in the room.

One once a week meeting in the daycare room

This is the once-per-week format from the second half of the manual, written for groups and clubs that do not meet daily. One meeting carries the mission. A single home task goes in the activity book. Do not try to compress five school days into one hour. In the daycare room, the daycare lead has one sitting with 3rd grade children, about 8 and 9. Do not replay a school week. Mixed ages share the room. The youngest children answer out loud. Older children write. Nobody waits while the other group finishes a long craft.

Age tips for 3rd grade (about 8 and 9)

Third grade sits at the top of the program’s age band. Children can explain why thank you matters and write more of the note themselves. Missions still last 5 to 10 minutes so they do not crowd reading and math. Community thank-yous fit well at this grade. For this daycare plan, keep the mission inside 5 to 10 minutes. a brief discussion the children can lead, with the adult keeping it on one kindness.

The note for Mr. Diaz

They draft, then check three parts: who, what the person did, and a closing that is not a joke. The extra practice pages in the classroom book are for the draft. The note that goes out can be copied clean. For this kindness the sentence is “Thank you for waiting until we were all across.” It has to mention the crosswalk or the stop sign, not a general compliment to the crossing guard.

Copy-ready lines for “The stop at the crosswalk”

Spoken line to practice: “Thank you for helping us cross.” Reply children may hear: “You are welcome. Stay on the curb until I say so.” Note line to write: “Thank you for waiting until we were all across.” Spanish line for the same kindness: “Gracias por ayudarnos a cruzar.”

Classroom and group notes for the daycare room

Daycare days are full. The program is built for that: short missions, a manual with a once-per-week option, and materials that work for mixed ages 4 to 9. There is no cost to the provider when a sponsor funds the package. Register on Find a Sponsor and Alison matches the room with a business or an individual. Mixed ages share the room. The youngest children answer out loud. Older children write. Nobody waits while the other group finishes a long craft.

If 3rd grade children stall on Mr. Diaz

Draw a curb line on the floor. Nobody says the line until both feet are on the safe side. A child who keeps thanking the daycare lead is avoiding Mr. Diaz. Send them back to the crossing guard and the moment at the crosswalk. Whispering “Thank you for helping us cross.” counts.

What Mr. Diaz's lesson needs

The Operation Thank You Manual is 98 pages. The first half is the Monday–Friday classroom sequence. The second half is the once-per-week sequence for clubs. Each child needs Why and How To Say “Thank You,” the classroom edition: a saddle-stitched activity book with situations for saying thank you, the How To Write A Thank You Note template, and extra pages to practice. The flashcard set has 30 cards, 8.5 by 11 inches, colorful, with rounded corners. The cards mirror the activity book so the group can look at one situation before writing. The manual, the activity book, and the flashcards are available in Spanish. The MISSION Reminders Supplement can be added when some children speak Spanish. Extra activity books are sold in packs of 10. For “The stop at the crosswalk,” also set out the stop sign. If the books are not in the room yet, practice the spoken mission anyway, and tell families how a sponsor or an order supplies the printed set.

Spanish materials in this group

If any child in the daycare room speaks Spanish at home, order the Spanish activity book for that child and keep the same situation. The Spanish line for this plan is “Gracias por ayudarnos a cruzar.” The English line remains “Thank you for helping us cross.”

Home work after The stop at the crosswalk

Thank the adult who walks you across a street or a parking lot, and name the place. Write that in the activity book so the family sees Mr. Diaz's kindness, not a blank “say thank you.” They draft, then check three parts: who, what the person did, and a closing that is not a joke. The extra practice pages in the classroom book are for the draft. The note that goes out can be copied clean.

Books for this daycare 3rd grade group

This page is about getting the set into the daycare room: the manual, one activity book per child, and the 30-card flashcards, so “Thank you for waiting until we were all across.” can be written about Mr. Diaz. The leader asks on Find a Sponsor at no cost. Alison Gilham matches a sponsor or takes a chosen group in any U.S. state, then calls the leader before shipping. Payment is due when the package is ready. Groups over 30 add books in tens. Spanish copies use “Gracias por ayudarnos a cruzar.” beside “Thank you for helping us cross..” Email info@cultureofthankyou.com or call 971-265-8262.

Questions leaders ask

Plan on 5 to 10 minutes. This is the once-per-week format from the second half of the manual, written for groups and clubs that do not meet daily. One meeting carries the mission. A single home task goes in the activity book. Do not try to compress five school days into one hour. Mixed ages share the room. The youngest children answer out loud. Older children write. Nobody waits while the other group finishes a long craft.

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