2nd grade homeschool: using the flashcard set (Monday–Friday)

The group uses one large flashcard to talk about a thank-you situation before anyone writes. This Monday–Friday plan is for 2nd grade children in a homeschool group.

  • about 7 and 8
  • 5 to 10 minutes missions
  • Monday–Friday
2nd grade homeschool: using the flashcard set (Monday–Friday) — children learning gratitude with books and activities

Using the flashcard set for 2nd grade in a homeschool group

The group uses one large flashcard to talk about a thank-you situation before anyone writes. In this homeschool table, 2nd grade children (about 7 and 8) practice with “The hand at the bus step.” Ms. Grant, the bus driver, she waited with her hand near the rail while a child climbed the step. The Monday–Friday calendar is the one that fits: This is the Monday–Friday format from the first half of the Operation Thank You Manual. You see the same children on five school days. Each day is one mission of 5 to 10 minutes. The note is the work of the later days, not of Monday.

The homeschool parent leads. The mission should not crowd the rest of the homeschool day. Stop at the time limit even if the child wants to keep decorating the note. Children answer in a flashcard on the rug or the board, then quiet writing. The spoken line is “Thank you for waiting while I got on..” The note line is “Thank you for waiting at the step..” Alison Gilham’s program supplies the manual, the activity book, and the flashcards; this page is the plan for this group and this kindness.

What Ms. Grant's lesson needs

The flashcard set has 30 cards, 8.5 by 11 inches, colorful, with rounded corners. The cards mirror the activity book so the group can look at one situation before writing. Each child needs Why and How To Say “Thank You,” the classroom edition: a saddle-stitched activity book with situations for saying thank you, the How To Write A Thank You Note template, and extra pages to practice. The Operation Thank You Manual is 98 pages. The first half is the Monday–Friday classroom sequence. The second half is the once-per-week sequence for clubs. The manual, the activity book, and the flashcards are available in Spanish. The MISSION Reminders Supplement can be added when some children speak Spanish. Extra activity books are sold in packs of 10. For “The hand at the bus step,” also set out the rail by the steps. Hold one card. Ask what the person did. Match the card to the page in the activity book only after the children have said the kindness in their own words.

If the books are not here yet, 2nd grade children can still say “Thank you for waiting while I got on.” in the homeschool table. A sponsor request is free for the leader. Shipping is included on full and partial packages, and the leader is called

Five 2nd grade missions in the homeschool table

Monday does not add a new helper. It stays with Ms. Grant. Look only. Put the rail by the steps where 2nd grade children can see it. Name Ms. Grant, the bus driver, and say the kindness: she waited with her hand near the rail while a child climbed the step. It happened at the bus door. Ask “What did she do instead of closing the door?” Stop at 5 to 10 minutes. No note yet. The mission should not crowd the rest of the homeschool day. Stop at the time limit even if the child wants to keep decorating the note. If they freeze, Set a chair as the step. One child climbs slowly. The other child practices the one-sentence thanks before the climber sits.

Age tips for 2nd grade (about 7 and 8)

Second graders can handle a fuller thank-you note. They still need the flashcards, because a picture keeps the talk on one kindness instead of a lecture about manners. The same situations appear in the activity book, so the class can discuss and then write with more independence. For this homeschool plan, keep the mission inside 5 to 10 minutes. a flashcard on the rug or the board, then quiet writing.

The note for Ms. Grant

Ask them to read the note aloud to a partner before it is finished. The partner’s only job is to point out whether the person and the kindness are both clear. For this kindness the sentence is “Thank you for waiting at the step.” It has to mention the bus door or the rail by the steps, not a general compliment to the bus driver.

Words to say about Ms. Grant

This is a script the homeschool parent can say with 2nd grade children during using the flashcard set. It uses “The hand at the bus step,” a practice situation for this plan. It is not a list of the 30 printed flashcards. Those cards stay in the set and match the activity book. Use this script when you need the words in the room.

Copy-ready lines for “The hand at the bus step”

Spoken line to practice: “Thank you for waiting while I got on.” Reply children may hear: “You are welcome. Find your seat.” Note line to write: “Thank you for waiting at the step.” Spanish line for the same kindness: “Gracias por esperarme en la puerta.”

Home work after The hand at the bus step

If you ride with a family driver, thank them for one exact part of the ride, such as waiting at the curb. Write that in the activity book so the family sees Ms. Grant's kindness, not a blank “say thank you.” Ask them to read the note aloud to a partner before it is finished. The partner’s only job is to point out whether the person and the kindness are both clear.

Classroom and group notes for the homeschool table

Home-schoolers use the same missions teachers use in class. The manual, one activity book, and the flashcards fit on the kitchen table. An all-inclusive home-schooler package is available in English and Spanish. Daily schooling can follow the Monday–Friday format. A weekly gratitude block can follow the once-per-week format. The mission should not crowd the rest of the homeschool day. Stop at the time limit even if the child wants to keep decorating the note.

Who is in the homeschool table

Home-schoolers use the same missions teachers use in class. The manual, one activity book, and the flashcards fit on the kitchen table. An all-inclusive home-schooler package is available in English and Spanish. Daily schooling can follow the Monday–Friday format. A weekly gratitude block can follow the once-per-week format.

If 2nd grade children stall on Ms. Grant

Set a chair as the step. One child climbs slowly. The other child practices the one-sentence thanks before the climber sits. A child who keeps thanking the homeschool parent is avoiding Ms. Grant. Send them back to the bus driver and the moment at the bus door. Whispering “Thank you for waiting while I got on.” counts.

Books for this homeschool 2nd grade group

Spoken practice about Ms. Grant can start in the homeschool table today. The activity-book template matters when 2nd grade children are ready to write “Thank you for waiting at the step..” If a sponsor is funding this homeschool group, parents get a sample letter, and shipping is included on full and partial packages. The leader can ask at no cost.

Spanish materials in this group

If any child in the homeschool table speaks Spanish at home, order the Spanish activity book for that child and keep the same situation. The Spanish line for this plan is “Gracias por esperarme en la puerta.” The English line remains “Thank you for waiting while I got on.”

Questions leaders ask

Plan on 5 to 10 minutes. This is the Monday–Friday format from the first half of the Operation Thank You Manual. You see the same children on five school days. Each day is one mission of 5 to 10 minutes. The note is the work of the later days, not of Monday. The mission should not crowd the rest of the homeschool day. Stop at the time limit even if the child wants to keep decorating the note.

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