2nd grade homeschool co-op: saying thank you out loud (Monday–Friday)

Children say thank you to a real person, out loud, for one kindness they can name. This Monday–Friday plan is for 2nd grade children in a homeschool co-op group.

  • about 7 and 8
  • 5 to 10 minutes missions
  • Monday–Friday
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Saying thank you out loud for 2nd grade in a homeschool co-op group

Children say thank you to a real person, out loud, for one kindness they can name. In this co-op class, 2nd grade children (about 7 and 8) practice with “The mitten from the lost box.” Mr. Cole, the aide, he looked through the lost box and found a mitten that matched. The Monday–Friday calendar is the one that fits: This is the Monday–Friday format from the first half of the Operation Thank You Manual. You see the same children on five school days. Each day is one mission of 5 to 10 minutes. The note is the work of the later days, not of Monday.

The co-op teacher leads. You will not see these children tomorrow. Everything that matters has to happen in the meeting, with one small home mission written in the book. Children answer in a flashcard on the rug or the board, then quiet writing. The spoken line is “Thank you for finding my mitten..” The note line is “Thank you for looking until you found my mitten..” Alison Gilham’s program supplies the manual, the activity book, and the flashcards; this page is the plan for this group and

Five 2nd grade missions in the co-op class

Monday does not add a new helper. It stays with Mr. Cole. Look only. Put one mitten where 2nd grade children can see it. Name Mr. Cole, the aide, and say the kindness: he looked through the lost box and found a mitten that matched. It happened at the lost-and-found box. Ask “What did he have to do that took time?” Stop at 5 to 10 minutes. No note yet. You will not see these children tomorrow. Everything that matters has to happen in the meeting, with one small home mission written in the book. If they freeze, Hide a mitten in a box of paper. Time the search. The thanks has to mention the looking.

Who is in the co-op class

A co-op class may meet once a week with children from several families. That is the once-per-week half of the manual. Each child still needs an activity book. Families can mix English and Spanish copies when the co-op is bilingual.

Age tips for 2nd grade (about 7 and 8)

Second graders can handle a fuller thank-you note. They still need the flashcards, because a picture keeps the talk on one kindness instead of a lecture about manners. The same situations appear in the activity book, so the class can discuss and then write with more independence. For this homeschool co-op plan, keep the mission inside 5 to 10 minutes. a flashcard on the rug or the board, then quiet writing.

The note for Mr. Cole

Ask them to read the note aloud to a partner before it is finished. The partner’s only job is to point out whether the person and the kindness are both clear. For this kindness the sentence is “Thank you for looking until you found my mitten.” It has to mention the lost-and-found box or one mitten, not a general compliment to the aide.

Words to say about Mr. Cole

This is a script the co-op teacher can say with 2nd grade children during saying thank you out loud. It uses “The mitten from the lost box,” a practice situation for this plan. It is not a list of the 30 printed flashcards. Those cards stay in the set and match the activity book. Use this script when you need the words in the room.

Copy-ready lines for “The mitten from the lost box”

Spoken line to practice: “Thank you for finding my mitten.” Reply children may hear: “It was at the bottom. Check the name next time.” Note line to write: “Thank you for looking until you found my mitten.” Spanish line for the same kindness: “Gracias por encontrar mi guante.”

Spanish materials in this group

If any child in the co-op class speaks Spanish at home, order the Spanish activity book for that child and keep the same situation. The Spanish line for this plan is “Gracias por encontrar mi guante.” The English line remains “Thank you for finding my mitten.”

Classroom and group notes for the co-op class

A co-op class may meet once a week with children from several families. That is the once-per-week half of the manual. Each child still needs an activity book. Families can mix English and Spanish copies when the co-op is bilingual. You will not see these children tomorrow. Everything that matters has to happen in the meeting, with one small home mission written in the book.

If 2nd grade children stall on Mr. Cole

Hide a mitten in a box of paper. Time the search. The thanks has to mention the looking. A child who keeps thanking the co-op teacher is avoiding Mr. Cole. Send them back to the aide and the moment at the lost-and-found box. Whispering “Thank you for finding my mitten.” counts.

Books for this homeschool co-op 2nd grade group

Spoken practice about Mr. Cole can start in the co-op class today. The activity-book template matters when 2nd grade children are ready to write “Thank you for looking until you found my mitten..” If a sponsor is funding this homeschool co-op group, parents get a sample letter, and shipping is included on full and partial packages. The leader can ask at no cost.

What Mr. Cole's lesson needs

The Operation Thank You Manual is 98 pages. The first half is the Monday–Friday classroom sequence. The second half is the once-per-week sequence for clubs. Each child needs Why and How To Say “Thank You,” the classroom edition: a saddle-stitched activity book with situations for saying thank you, the How To Write A Thank You Note template, and extra pages to practice. The flashcard set has 30 cards, 8.5 by 11 inches, colorful, with rounded corners. The cards mirror the activity book so the group can look at one situation before writing. The manual, the activity book, and the flashcards are available in Spanish. The MISSION Reminders Supplement can be added when some children speak Spanish. Extra activity books are sold in packs of 10. For “The mitten from the lost box,” also set out one mitten. Practice the spoken line twice in the group, then have each child say it to a partner as if that partner were the helper.

Home work after The mitten from the lost box

Thank a family member who searches for a lost shoe, hat, or paper, and name the item. Write that in the activity book so the family sees Mr. Cole's kindness, not a blank “say thank you.” Ask them to read the note aloud to a partner before it is finished. The partner’s only job is to point out whether the person and the kindness are both clear.

Before Mr. Cole comes up in the co-op class

The co-op teacher should be able to say the kindness in one breath: Mr. Cole he looked through the lost box and found a mitten that matched. If that sentence is fuzzy, 2nd grade children will write a vague thank-you. Keep one mitten in reach and keep the mission inside 5 to 10 minutes. You will not see these children tomorrow. Everything that matters has to happen in the meeting, with one small home mission written in the book.

Questions leaders ask

Plan on 5 to 10 minutes. This is the Monday–Friday format from the first half of the Operation Thank You Manual. You see the same children on five school days. Each day is one mission of 5 to 10 minutes. The note is the work of the later days, not of Monday. You will not see these children tomorrow. Everything that matters has to happen in the meeting, with one small home mission written in the book.

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