2nd grade after-school: sponsoring this group (Monday–Friday)

The leader knows how a sponsor funds the manual, the activity books, and the flashcards, and how to ask. This Monday–Friday plan is for 2nd grade children in a after-school group.

  • about 7 and 8
  • 5 to 10 minutes missions
  • Monday–Friday
2nd grade after-school: sponsoring this group (Monday–Friday) — children learning gratitude with books and activities

Sponsoring this group for 2nd grade in a after-school group

The leader knows how a sponsor funds the manual, the activity books, and the flashcards, and how to ask. In this after-school room, 2nd grade children (about 7 and 8) practice with “The water bowl filled.” Aunt May, the family member, she filled the pet’s water bowl when it was empty. The Monday–Friday calendar is the one that fits: This is the Monday–Friday format from the first half of the Operation Thank You Manual. You see the same children on five school days. Each day is one mission of 5 to 10 minutes. The note is the work of the later days, not of Monday.

The after-school leader leads. Children have already been in school. Skip silent copying drills. Say the line, act the kindness, and write only the note the program is building toward. Children answer in a flashcard on the rug or the board, then quiet writing. The spoken line is “Thank you for filling the water..” The note line is “Thank you for giving our pet water..” Alison Gilham’s program supplies the manual, the activity book, and the flashcards; this page is the plan for this group and this kindness.

Five 2nd grade missions in the after-school room

Monday in the after-school room belongs to the after-school leader. Look only. Put a water bowl where 2nd grade children can see it. Name Aunt May, the family member, and say the kindness: she filled the pet’s water bowl when it was empty. It happened at the floor by the pet bowl. Ask “How can you tell a bowl needs water?” Stop at 5 to 10 minutes. No note yet. Children have already been in school. Skip silent copying drills. Say the line, act the kindness, and write only the note the program is building toward. If they freeze, Show an empty cup beside a full cup. Ask which one needed a person.

On Tuesday, 2nd grade children (about 7 and 8) stay with “The water bowl filled.” Say the line. 2nd grade children tell a partner, “Thank you for filling the water.” If the books are not in the room yet, practice the spoken mission anyway, and tell families how a sponsor or an order supplies the printed set. If the kindness disappears, point back to a water bowl. Children have already been in school. Skip silent copying drills. Say the line, act the kindness, and write only the note the program is building toward. If they freeze, Show an empty cup beside a full cup. Ask which one needed a person.

Who is in the after-school room

After-school groups are tired. The mission has to be shorter than the day’s homework help and more concrete than a talk about character. Flashcards give the group something to look at. The weekly format fits programs that do not meet every weekday.

Age tips for 2nd grade (about 7 and 8)

Second graders can handle a fuller thank-you note. They still need the flashcards, because a picture keeps the talk on one kindness instead of a lecture about manners. The same situations appear in the activity book, so the class can discuss and then write with more independence. For this after-school plan, keep the mission inside 5 to 10 minutes. a flashcard on the rug or the board, then quiet writing.

The note for Aunt May

Ask them to read the note aloud to a partner before it is finished. The partner’s only job is to point out whether the person and the kindness are both clear. For this kindness the sentence is “Thank you for giving our pet water.” It has to mention the floor by the pet bowl or a water bowl, not a general compliment to the family member.

Words to say about Aunt May

This is a script the after-school leader can say with 2nd grade children during sponsoring this group. It uses “The water bowl filled,” a practice situation for this plan. It is not a list of the 30 printed flashcards. Those cards stay in the set and match the activity book. Use this script when you need the words in the room.

Copy-ready lines for “The water bowl filled”

Spoken line to practice: “Thank you for filling the water.” Reply children may hear: “The bowl was empty. You can help next time.” Note line to write: “Thank you for giving our pet water.” Spanish line for the same kindness: “Gracias por poner el agua.”

Spanish materials in this group

If any child in the after-school room speaks Spanish at home, order the Spanish activity book for that child and keep the same situation. The Spanish line for this plan is “Gracias por poner el agua.” The English line remains “Thank you for filling the water.”

Classroom and group notes for the after-school room

After-school groups are tired. The mission has to be shorter than the day’s homework help and more concrete than a talk about character. Flashcards give the group something to look at. The weekly format fits programs that do not meet every weekday. Children have already been in school. Skip silent copying drills. Say the line, act the kindness, and write only the note the program is building toward.

If 2nd grade children stall on Aunt May

Show an empty cup beside a full cup. Ask which one needed a person. A child who keeps thanking the after-school leader is avoiding Aunt May. Send them back to the family member and the moment at the floor by the pet bowl. Whispering “Thank you for filling the water.” counts.

Books for this after-school 2nd grade group

This page is about getting the set into the after-school room: the manual, one activity book per child, and the 30-card flashcards, so “Thank you for giving our pet water.” can be written about Aunt May. The leader asks on Find a Sponsor at no cost. Alison Gilham matches a sponsor or takes a chosen group in any U.S. state, then calls the leader before shipping. Payment is due when the package is ready. Groups over 30 add books in tens. Spanish copies use “Gracias por poner el agua.” beside “Thank you for filling the water..” Email info@cultureofthankyou.com or call 971-265-8262.

What Aunt May's lesson needs

The Operation Thank You Manual is 98 pages. The first half is the Monday–Friday classroom sequence. The second half is the once-per-week sequence for clubs. Each child needs Why and How To Say “Thank You,” the classroom edition: a saddle-stitched activity book with situations for saying thank you, the How To Write A Thank You Note template, and extra pages to practice. The flashcard set has 30 cards, 8.5 by 11 inches, colorful, with rounded corners. The cards mirror the activity book so the group can look at one situation before writing. The manual, the activity book, and the flashcards are available in Spanish. The MISSION Reminders Supplement can be added when some children speak Spanish. Extra activity books are sold in packs of 10. For “The water bowl filled,” also set out a water bowl. If the books are not in the room yet, practice the spoken mission anyway, and tell families how a sponsor or an order supplies the printed set.

Home work after The water bowl filled

Fill or notice one bowl or cup at home and thank the person who usually does that job. Write that in the activity book so the family sees Aunt May's kindness, not a blank “say thank you.” Ask them to read the note aloud to a partner before it is finished. The partner’s only job is to point out whether the person and the kindness are both clear.

Questions leaders ask

Plan on 5 to 10 minutes. This is the Monday–Friday format from the first half of the Operation Thank You Manual. You see the same children on five school days. Each day is one mission of 5 to 10 minutes. The note is the work of the later days, not of Monday. Children have already been in school. Skip silent copying drills. Say the line, act the kindness, and write only the note the program is building toward.

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