1st grade youth club: sponsoring this group (once a week)

The leader knows how a sponsor funds the manual, the activity books, and the flashcards, and how to ask. This once a week plan is for 1st grade children in a youth club group.

  • about 6 and 7
  • 5 to 10 minutes missions
  • once a week
1st grade youth club: sponsoring this group (once a week) — children learning gratitude with books and activities

Sponsoring this group for 1st grade in a youth club group

The leader knows how a sponsor funds the manual, the activity books, and the flashcards, and how to ask. In this club meeting, 1st grade children (about 6 and 7) practice with “The book held open.” Ms. Brooks, the librarian, she held a book open and waited while a child found the page. The once a week calendar is the one that fits: This is the once-per-week format from the second half of the manual, written for groups and clubs that do not meet daily. One meeting carries the mission. A single home task goes in the activity book. Do not try to compress five school days into one hour.

The youth club leader leads. Attendance may change week to week. Begin with a one-sentence reminder of last week’s kindness so a new child is not lost, then do today’s mission. Children answer in a short partner talk, then one child shares with the whole group. The spoken line is “Thank you for helping me find the page..” The note line is “Thank you for waiting while I found the page..” Alison Gilham’s program supplies the manual, the activity book, and the flashcards; this page is the plan for this group and this kindness.

Who is in the club meeting

Clubs and community youth programs can run the program without a full school week. The package is the same three parts: the Operation Thank You Manual, activity books, and the 30-card flashcard set. Alison coordinates shipping to the leader.

Plan 5 to 10 minutes for 1st grade. First graders can write two or three sentences with spelling help. They should name the person and the kindness instead of stopping at “Thanks for everything.” The youth club leader holds the manual. Children hold the line about Ms. Brooks once they can say what happened to a picture book open to the right page.

Words to say about Ms. Brooks

This is a script the youth club leader can say with 1st grade children during sponsoring this group. It uses “The book held open,” a practice situation for this plan. It is not a list of the 30 printed flashcards. Those cards stay in the set and match the activity book. Use this script when you need the words in the room.

One once a week meeting in the club meeting

This is the once-per-week format from the second half of the manual, written for groups and clubs that do not meet daily. One meeting carries the mission. A single home task goes in the activity book. Do not try to compress five school days into one hour. In the club meeting, the youth club leader has one sitting with 1st grade children, about 6 and 7. Do not replay a school week. Attendance may change week to week. Begin with a one-sentence reminder of last week’s kindness so a new child is not lost, then do today’s mission.

Age tips for 1st grade (about 6 and 7)

First graders are ready to connect spoken manners with a written note. They can explain, in a simple way, that thank you is for a real person who did a real thing. A first-grade teacher, Laura H, said her children used please and thank you all the time once they knew the power behind the words. For this youth club plan, keep the mission inside 5 to 10 minutes. a short partner talk, then one child shares with the whole group.

The note for Ms. Brooks

Use the How To Write A Thank You Note template in the activity book. First graders fill the greeting, one sentence about the kindness, and a closing. The adult helps with names and leaves the kindness sentence to the child. For this kindness the sentence is “Thank you for waiting while I found the page.” It has to mention the library corner or a picture book open to the right page, not a general compliment to the librarian.

Copy-ready lines for “The book held open”

Spoken line to practice: “Thank you for helping me find the page.” Reply children may hear: “I am glad you asked. Take your time.” Note line to write: “Thank you for waiting while I found the page.” Spanish line for the same kindness: “Gracias por esperar mientras encontraba la página.”

Classroom and group notes for the club meeting

Clubs and community youth programs can run the program without a full school week. The package is the same three parts: the Operation Thank You Manual, activity books, and the 30-card flashcard set. Alison coordinates shipping to the leader. Attendance may change week to week. Begin with a one-sentence reminder of last week’s kindness so a new child is not lost, then do today’s mission.

If 1st grade children stall on Ms. Brooks

Hold a book open yourself and freeze. Ask what kindness the freeze is showing. A child who keeps thanking the youth club leader is avoiding Ms. Brooks. Send them back to the librarian and the moment at the library corner. Whispering “Thank you for helping me find the page.” counts.

What Ms. Brooks's lesson needs

The Operation Thank You Manual is 98 pages. The first half is the Monday–Friday classroom sequence. The second half is the once-per-week sequence for clubs. Each child needs Why and How To Say “Thank You,” the classroom edition: a saddle-stitched activity book with situations for saying thank you, the How To Write A Thank You Note template, and extra pages to practice. The flashcard set has 30 cards, 8.5 by 11 inches, colorful, with rounded corners. The cards mirror the activity book so the group can look at one situation before writing. The manual, the activity book, and the flashcards are available in Spanish. The MISSION Reminders Supplement can be added when some children speak Spanish. Extra activity books are sold in packs of 10. For “The book held open,” also set out a picture book open to the right page. If the books are not in the room yet, practice the spoken mission anyway, and tell families how a sponsor or an order supplies the printed set.

Spanish materials in this group

If any child in the club meeting speaks Spanish at home, order the Spanish activity book for that child and keep the same situation. The Spanish line for this plan is “Gracias por esperar mientras encontraba la página.” The English line remains “Thank you for helping me find the page.”

Home work after The book held open

Thank a family member who reads one page with you and waits when you lose the line. Write that in the activity book so the family sees Ms. Brooks's kindness, not a blank “say thank you.” Use the How To Write A Thank You Note template in the activity book. First graders fill the greeting, one sentence about the kindness, and a closing. The adult helps with names and leaves the kindness sentence to the child.

Books for this youth club 1st grade group

This page is about getting the set into the club meeting: the manual, one activity book per child, and the 30-card flashcards, so “Thank you for waiting while I found the page.” can be written about Ms. Brooks. The leader asks on Find a Sponsor at no cost. Alison Gilham matches a sponsor or takes a chosen group in any U.S. state, then calls the leader before shipping. Payment is due when the package is ready. Groups over 30 add books in tens. Spanish copies use “Gracias por esperar mientras encontraba la página.” beside “Thank you for helping me find the page..” Email info@cultureofthankyou.com or call 971-265-8262.

Questions leaders ask

Plan on 5 to 10 minutes. This is the once-per-week format from the second half of the manual, written for groups and clubs that do not meet daily. One meeting carries the mission. A single home task goes in the activity book. Do not try to compress five school days into one hour. Attendance may change week to week. Begin with a one-sentence reminder of last week’s kindness so a new child is not lost, then do today’s mission.

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