1st grade homeschool: using the flashcard set (once a week)

The group uses one large flashcard to talk about a thank-you situation before anyone writes. This once a week plan is for 1st grade children in a homeschool group.

  • about 6 and 7
  • 5 to 10 minutes missions
  • once a week
1st grade homeschool: using the flashcard set (once a week) — children learning gratitude with books and activities

Using the flashcard set for 1st grade in a homeschool group

The group uses one large flashcard to talk about a thank-you situation before anyone writes. In this homeschool table, 1st grade children (about 6 and 7) practice with “The music stand turned around.” Ms. Clark, the music teacher, she turned a music stand so a child could see the song. The once a week calendar is the one that fits: This is the once-per-week format from the second half of the manual, written for groups and clubs that do not meet daily. One meeting carries the mission. A single home task goes in the activity book. Do not try to compress five school days into one hour.

The homeschool parent leads. The mission should not crowd the rest of the homeschool day. Stop at the time limit even if the child wants to keep decorating the note. Children answer in a short partner talk, then one child shares with the whole group. The spoken line is “Thank you for turning the stand so I could see..” The note line is “Thank you for helping me see the song..” Alison Gilham’s program supplies the manual, the activity book, and the flashcards; this page is the plan for this group and this kindness.

What Ms. Clark's lesson needs

The flashcard set has 30 cards, 8.5 by 11 inches, colorful, with rounded corners. The cards mirror the activity book so the group can look at one situation before writing. Each child needs Why and How To Say “Thank You,” the classroom edition: a saddle-stitched activity book with situations for saying thank you, the How To Write A Thank You Note template, and extra pages to practice. The Operation Thank You Manual is 98 pages. The first half is the Monday–Friday classroom sequence. The second half is the once-per-week sequence for clubs. The manual, the activity book, and the flashcards are available in Spanish. The MISSION Reminders Supplement can be added when some children speak Spanish. Extra activity books are sold in packs of 10. For “The music stand turned around,” also set out a music stand. Hold one card. Ask what the person did. Match the card to the page in the activity book only after the children have said the kindness in their own words.

If the books are not here yet, 1st grade children can still say “Thank you for turning the stand so I could see.” in the homeschool table. A sponsor request is free for the leader. Shipping is included on full and partial packages, and the leader is called before anything ships.

One once a week meeting in the homeschool table

This is the once-per-week format from the second half of the manual, written for groups and clubs that do not meet daily. One meeting carries the mission. A single home task goes in the activity book. Do not try to compress five school days into one hour. In the homeschool table, the homeschool parent has one sitting with 1st grade children, about 6 and 7. Do not replay a school week. The mission should not crowd the rest of the homeschool day. Stop at the time limit even if the child wants to keep decorating the note.

Age tips for 1st grade (about 6 and 7)

First graders are ready to connect spoken manners with a written note. They can explain, in a simple way, that thank you is for a real person who did a real thing. A first-grade teacher, Laura H, said her children used please and thank you all the time once they knew the power behind the words. For this homeschool plan, keep the mission inside 5 to 10 minutes. a short partner talk, then one child shares with the whole group.

The note for Ms. Clark

Use the How To Write A Thank You Note template in the activity book. First graders fill the greeting, one sentence about the kindness, and a closing. The adult helps with names and leaves the kindness sentence to the child. For this kindness the sentence is “Thank you for helping me see the song.” It has to mention the music circle or a music stand, not a general compliment to the music teacher.

Words to say about Ms. Clark

This is a script the homeschool parent can say with 1st grade children during using the flashcard set. It uses “The music stand turned around,” a practice situation for this plan. It is not a list of the 30 printed flashcards. Those cards stay in the set and match the activity book. Use this script when you need the words in the room.

Copy-ready lines for “The music stand turned around”

Spoken line to practice: “Thank you for turning the stand so I could see.” Reply children may hear: “Can you see the first line now?” Note line to write: “Thank you for helping me see the song.” Spanish line for the same kindness: “Gracias por girar el atril.”

Home work after The music stand turned around

Thank a family member who moves a lamp or a book so you can see. Write that in the activity book so the family sees Ms. Clark's kindness, not a blank “say thank you.” Use the How To Write A Thank You Note template in the activity book. First graders fill the greeting, one sentence about the kindness, and a closing. The adult helps with names and leaves the kindness sentence to the child.

Classroom and group notes for the homeschool table

Home-schoolers use the same missions teachers use in class. The manual, one activity book, and the flashcards fit on the kitchen table. An all-inclusive home-schooler package is available in English and Spanish. Daily schooling can follow the Monday–Friday format. A weekly gratitude block can follow the once-per-week format. The mission should not crowd the rest of the homeschool day. Stop at the time limit even if the child wants to keep decorating the note.

Who is in the homeschool table

Home-schoolers use the same missions teachers use in class. The manual, one activity book, and the flashcards fit on the kitchen table. An all-inclusive home-schooler package is available in English and Spanish. Daily schooling can follow the Monday–Friday format. A weekly gratitude block can follow the once-per-week format.

If 1st grade children stall on Ms. Clark

Turn a paper away from a child, then toward them. Ask which way was the kindness. A child who keeps thanking the homeschool parent is avoiding Ms. Clark. Send them back to the music teacher and the moment at the music circle. Whispering “Thank you for turning the stand so I could see.” counts.

Books for this homeschool 1st grade group

Spoken practice about Ms. Clark can start in the homeschool table today. The activity-book template matters when 1st grade children are ready to write “Thank you for helping me see the song..” If a sponsor is funding this homeschool group, parents get a sample letter, and shipping is included on full and partial packages. The leader can ask at no cost.

Spanish materials in this group

If any child in the homeschool table speaks Spanish at home, order the Spanish activity book for that child and keep the same situation. The Spanish line for this plan is “Gracias por girar el atril.” The English line remains “Thank you for turning the stand so I could see.”

Questions leaders ask

Plan on 5 to 10 minutes. This is the once-per-week format from the second half of the manual, written for groups and clubs that do not meet daily. One meeting carries the mission. A single home task goes in the activity book. Do not try to compress five school days into one hour. The mission should not crowd the rest of the homeschool day. Stop at the time limit even if the child wants to keep decorating the note.

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