1st grade daycare: running the missions (Monday–Friday)

The adult leads a predictable Operation Thank You mission that children can recognize from one meeting to the next. This Monday–Friday plan is for 1st grade children in a daycare group.

  • about 6 and 7
  • 5 to 10 minutes missions
  • Monday–Friday
1st grade daycare: running the missions (Monday–Friday) — children learning gratitude with books and activities

Running the missions for 1st grade in a daycare group

The adult leads a predictable Operation Thank You mission that children can recognize from one meeting to the next. In this daycare room, 1st grade children (about 6 and 7) practice with “The shared crackers.” Riley, the classmate, Riley split a pack of crackers with a child who had none. The Monday–Friday calendar is the one that fits: This is the Monday–Friday format from the first half of the Operation Thank You Manual. You see the same children on five school days. Each day is one mission of 5 to 10 minutes. The note is the work of the later days, not of Monday.

The daycare lead leads. Mixed ages share the room. The youngest children answer out loud. Older children write. Nobody waits while the other group finishes a long craft. Children answer in a short partner talk, then one child shares with the whole group. The spoken line is “Thank you for sharing your crackers..” The note line is “Thank you for sharing your snack with me..” Alison Gilham’s program supplies the manual, the activity book, and the flashcards; this page is the plan for this

The note for Riley

Use the How To Write A Thank You Note template in the activity book. First graders fill the greeting, one sentence about the kindness, and a closing. The adult helps with names and leaves the kindness sentence to the child. For this kindness the sentence is “Thank you for sharing your snack with me.” It has to mention the snack table or a pack of crackers, not a general compliment to the classmate.

A 1st grade note that says only “thanks for being nice” goes back. Ask what Riley did. The extra practice pages are for the messy draft. Spanish-speaking children write the same kindness in the Spanish activity book, using “Gracias por compartir tus galletas.”

Words to say about Riley

This is a script the daycare lead can say with 1st grade children during running the missions. It uses “The shared crackers,” a practice situation for this plan. It is not a list of the 30 printed flashcards. Those cards stay in the set and match the activity book. Use this script when you need the words in the room.

Age tips for 1st grade (about 6 and 7)

First graders are ready to connect spoken manners with a written note. They can explain, in a simple way, that thank you is for a real person who did a real thing. A first-grade teacher, Laura H, said her children used please and thank you all the time once they knew the power behind the words. For this daycare plan, keep the mission inside 5 to 10 minutes. a short partner talk, then one child shares with the whole group.

Five 1st grade missions in the daycare room

Keep Monday inside 5 to 10 minutes in this daycare group. Look only. Put a pack of crackers where 1st grade children can see it. Name Riley, the classmate, and say the kindness: Riley split a pack of crackers with a child who had none. It happened at the snack table. Ask “What did Riley have less of after sharing?” Stop at 5 to 10 minutes. No note yet. Mixed ages share the room. The youngest children answer out loud. Older children write. Nobody waits while the other group finishes a long craft. If they freeze, Use two paper squares as crackers. Practice the offer and the thanks before anyone pretends to eat.

Copy-ready lines for “The shared crackers”

Spoken line to practice: “Thank you for sharing your crackers.” Reply children may hear: “You can have these.” Note line to write: “Thank you for sharing your snack with me.” Spanish line for the same kindness: “Gracias por compartir tus galletas.”

What Riley's lesson needs

The Operation Thank You Manual is 98 pages. The first half is the Monday–Friday classroom sequence. The second half is the once-per-week sequence for clubs. Each child needs Why and How To Say “Thank You,” the classroom edition: a saddle-stitched activity book with situations for saying thank you, the How To Write A Thank You Note template, and extra pages to practice. The flashcard set has 30 cards, 8.5 by 11 inches, colorful, with rounded corners. The cards mirror the activity book so the group can look at one situation before writing. The manual, the activity book, and the flashcards are available in Spanish. The MISSION Reminders Supplement can be added when some children speak Spanish. Extra activity books are sold in packs of 10. For “The shared crackers,” also set out a pack of crackers. Follow the manual’s order. Do not invent a new craft. The child’s work is the mission and, at the end of the series, the note.

Classroom and group notes for the daycare room

Daycare days are full. The program is built for that: short missions, a manual with a once-per-week option, and materials that work for mixed ages 4 to 9. There is no cost to the provider when a sponsor funds the package. Register on Find a Sponsor and Alison matches the room with a business or an individual. Mixed ages share the room. The youngest children answer out loud. Older children write. Nobody waits while the other group finishes a long craft.

Home work after The shared crackers

Share one snack at home and thank someone who has shared food with you before. Write that in the activity book so the family sees Riley's kindness, not a blank “say thank you.” Use the How To Write A Thank You Note template in the activity book. First graders fill the greeting, one sentence about the kindness, and a closing. The adult helps with names and leaves the kindness sentence to the child.

If 1st grade children stall on Riley

Use two paper squares as crackers. Practice the offer and the thanks before anyone pretends to eat. A child who keeps thanking the daycare lead is avoiding Riley. Send them back to the classmate and the moment at the snack table. Whispering “Thank you for sharing your crackers.” counts.

Who is in the daycare room

Daycare days are full. The program is built for that: short missions, a manual with a once-per-week option, and materials that work for mixed ages 4 to 9. There is no cost to the provider when a sponsor funds the package. Register on Find a Sponsor and Alison matches the room with a business or an individual.

Books for this daycare 1st grade group

Spoken practice about Riley can start in the daycare room today. The activity-book template matters when 1st grade children are ready to write “Thank you for sharing your snack with me..” If a sponsor is funding this daycare group, parents get a sample letter, and shipping is included on full and partial packages. The leader can ask at no cost.

Spanish materials in this group

If any child in the daycare room speaks Spanish at home, order the Spanish activity book for that child and keep the same situation. The Spanish line for this plan is “Gracias por compartir tus galletas.” The English line remains “Thank you for sharing your crackers.”

Questions leaders ask

Plan on 5 to 10 minutes. This is the Monday–Friday format from the first half of the Operation Thank You Manual. You see the same children on five school days. Each day is one mission of 5 to 10 minutes. The note is the work of the later days, not of Monday. Mixed ages share the room. The youngest children answer out loud. Older children write. Nobody waits while the other group finishes a long craft.

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