1st grade homeschool co-op: using the flashcard set (once a week)

The group uses one large flashcard to talk about a thank-you situation before anyone writes. This once a week plan is for 1st grade children in a homeschool co-op group.

  • about 6 and 7
  • 5 to 10 minutes missions
  • once a week
1st grade homeschool co-op: using the flashcard set (once a week) — children learning gratitude with books and activities

Using the flashcard set for 1st grade in a homeschool co-op group

The group uses one large flashcard to talk about a thank-you situation before anyone writes. In this co-op class, 1st grade children (about 6 and 7) practice with “The shared crackers.” Riley, the classmate, Riley split a pack of crackers with a child who had none. The once a week calendar is the one that fits: This is the once-per-week format from the second half of the manual, written for groups and clubs that do not meet daily. One meeting carries the mission. A single home task goes in the activity book. Do not try to compress five school days into one hour.

The co-op teacher leads. You will not see these children tomorrow. Everything that matters has to happen in the meeting, with one small home mission written in the book. Children answer in a short partner talk, then one child shares with the whole group. The spoken line is “Thank you for sharing your crackers..” The note line is “Thank you for sharing your snack with me..” Alison Gilham’s program supplies the manual, the activity book, and the flashcards; this

The note for Riley

Use the How To Write A Thank You Note template in the activity book. First graders fill the greeting, one sentence about the kindness, and a closing. The adult helps with names and leaves the kindness sentence to the child. For this kindness the sentence is “Thank you for sharing your snack with me.” It has to mention the snack table or a pack of crackers, not a general compliment to the classmate.

A 1st grade note that says only “thanks for being nice” goes back. Ask what Riley did. The extra practice pages are for the messy draft. Spanish-speaking children write the same kindness in the Spanish activity book, using “Gracias por compartir tus galletas.”

Words to say about Riley

This is a script the co-op teacher can say with 1st grade children during using the flashcard set. It uses “The shared crackers,” a practice situation for this plan. It is not a list of the 30 printed flashcards. Those cards stay in the set and match the activity book. Use this script when you need the words in the room.

co-op teacher: “We are going to thank Riley. Riley is the classmate. Here is the kindness: Riley split a pack of crackers with a child who had none. It happened at the snack table. Look at a pack of crackers.”

Age tips for 1st grade (about 6 and 7)

First graders are ready to connect spoken manners with a written note. They can explain, in a simple way, that thank you is for a real person who did a real thing. A first-grade teacher, Laura H, said her children used please and thank you all the time once they knew the power behind the words. For this homeschool co-op plan, keep the mission inside 5 to 10 minutes. a short partner talk, then one child shares with the whole group.

One once a week meeting in the co-op class

This is the once-per-week format from the second half of the manual, written for groups and clubs that do not meet daily. One meeting carries the mission. A single home task goes in the activity book. Do not try to compress five school days into one hour. In the co-op class, the co-op teacher has one sitting with 1st grade children, about 6 and 7. Do not replay a school week. You will not see these children tomorrow. Everything that matters has to happen in the meeting, with one small home mission written in the book.

Copy-ready lines for “The shared crackers”

Spoken line to practice: “Thank you for sharing your crackers.” Reply children may hear: “You can have these.” Note line to write: “Thank you for sharing your snack with me.” Spanish line for the same kindness: “Gracias por compartir tus galletas.”

What Riley's lesson needs

The flashcard set has 30 cards, 8.5 by 11 inches, colorful, with rounded corners. The cards mirror the activity book so the group can look at one situation before writing. Each child needs Why and How To Say “Thank You,” the classroom edition: a saddle-stitched activity book with situations for saying thank you, the How To Write A Thank You Note template, and extra pages to practice. The Operation Thank You Manual is 98 pages. The first half is the Monday–Friday classroom sequence. The second half is the once-per-week sequence for clubs. The manual, the activity book, and the flashcards are available in Spanish. The MISSION Reminders Supplement can be added when some children speak Spanish. Extra activity books are sold in packs of 10. For “The shared crackers,” also set out a pack of crackers. Hold one card. Ask what the person did. Match the card to the page in the activity book only after the children have said the kindness in their own words.

Classroom and group notes for the co-op class

A co-op class may meet once a week with children from several families. That is the once-per-week half of the manual. Each child still needs an activity book. Families can mix English and Spanish copies when the co-op is bilingual. You will not see these children tomorrow. Everything that matters has to happen in the meeting, with one small home mission written in the book.

Home work after The shared crackers

Share one snack at home and thank someone who has shared food with you before. Write that in the activity book so the family sees Riley's kindness, not a blank “say thank you.” Use the How To Write A Thank You Note template in the activity book. First graders fill the greeting, one sentence about the kindness, and a closing. The adult helps with names and leaves the kindness sentence to the child.

If 1st grade children stall on Riley

Use two paper squares as crackers. Practice the offer and the thanks before anyone pretends to eat. A child who keeps thanking the co-op teacher is avoiding Riley. Send them back to the classmate and the moment at the snack table. Whispering “Thank you for sharing your crackers.” counts.

Who is in the co-op class

A co-op class may meet once a week with children from several families. That is the once-per-week half of the manual. Each child still needs an activity book. Families can mix English and Spanish copies when the co-op is bilingual.

Books for this homeschool co-op 1st grade group

Spoken practice about Riley can start in the co-op class today. The activity-book template matters when 1st grade children are ready to write “Thank you for sharing your snack with me..” If a sponsor is funding this homeschool co-op group, parents get a sample letter, and shipping is included on full and partial packages. The leader can ask at no cost.

Spanish materials in this group

If any child in the co-op class speaks Spanish at home, order the Spanish activity book for that child and keep the same situation. The Spanish line for this plan is “Gracias por compartir tus galletas.” The English line remains “Thank you for sharing your crackers.”

Questions leaders ask

Plan on 5 to 10 minutes. This is the once-per-week format from the second half of the manual, written for groups and clubs that do not meet daily. One meeting carries the mission. A single home task goes in the activity book. Do not try to compress five school days into one hour. You will not see these children tomorrow. Everything that matters has to happen in the meeting, with one small home mission written in the book.

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